If you are looking for advice on dating women, then hopefully this article will give you a few ideas. When you treat your woman right on a first date, they will will want to date you again, no matter how much money you have in your bank account or how you look. There is one key success factor, and that is charm, charm, charm. Although there is such a thing as too flattering, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few must not dos such as:
1) Do not be too subservient such as
a. Making her feel so important that you lower your status to be less than hers. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, couch it as a double entendre. You will achieve the complement yet still appearing to be a person of substance and stature.
b. Asking her to compare you former lovers – on a first date you will look like less because of the lack of history Do not force this comparison early; it is too soon to get into this depth of conversation.
c. Ceding control of the date. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of what she would like, then give her a list of two, or at most three choices of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of them, then you have not done your homework as to what her preferences are. You are a moron, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can dig for suggestions, but on a first date you should appear to be on top, thoughtful, but flexible).
2) The next fault is trying to impress her too much. Do not boast and crow, and do not say how much money you make. Just be a interested partner, listen to her, and pay the tab. The first date is all about her, it is not about you. If she asks questions, then answer them in something more than one word answers, but no answer should take longer than one minute, or else you are in the danger zone of saying too much and coming across as boasting or bragging.
3) Do not do not make her out to be a princess. That advice is more important if the woman is really attractive. Beautiful women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are hanging out with hoodlums? That is because bad boys do not put them on a pedestal and they feel like they are being appreciated for who they are. In many cases the bad boys treat them like crap, but they like that because at least the bum is treating them differently than everyone else does. Nothing is more tiring to sexy women as getting hit on – they have heard it all before. The better approach is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they are doing, where they work, etc.
4) Being exclusive too soon in a relationship. Both you and her should be obviously playing the field initially. If you come across as someone who would commit exclusively either on or just after the first date, you will seem needy and diminished in their eyes. No woman wants to be dating a grasping loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore more interesting in her eyes.
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